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Question from (name withheld by request): I hope you can help me, Rick. Someone is sending me threatening emails, and it has me worried.
I’m pretty sure it’s my ex-boyfriend because he mentions things in the emails that only he should know about. The thing is, I don’t recognize the email address.
I know you can get the IP address from an email’s headers because I researched it online. Is there any way to trace that IP address and find out where the emails are being sent from?
I know where this guy lives now so it should be pretty easy to prove that it’s him if I can prove where the emails were sent from. He has threatened to “put me in the hospital” and I’m very scared that he might do it.
Rick’s answer: I can certainly understand your concern. The short answer to your question is yes, you can easily find out the general location that corresponds to a public IP address – with a couple of huge caveats…
Caveat #1…
If this person is using a Virtual Private Network (VPN) then the IP address contained in the email he’s sending out won’t show HIS actual IP address.
Instead, that IP address will be one that was assigned by the VPN server. If that turns out to be the case the IP address listed in his outgoing emails could literally be from anywhere in the world.
You also need to keep in mind that the IP address that’s assigned to a device actually belongs to your Internet Service Provider (ISP) which means the IP address will likely show the location of one of your ISP’s physical locations instead of yours.
For example, I live in southwestern Virginia but my IP comes up as being from Knoxville, Tennessee, which is over 100 miles away from my home. That’s why I said above that the IP address locator will only show a general location, not an actual address (and in cases like mine, not even the actual city or town the person resides in). In other words, it can only give you a somewhat close approximation of the person’s location.
Caveat #2…
If this person isn’t using a VPN you just might be able to determine the general location where the email was sent from by simply visiting the IP Location Finder website and paste the originating IP address into the search box.
The tool will then look up that IP address and display its corresponding city and state.
As I alluded to earlier, I now have to mention that IP addresses are very unreliable indicators of a person’s actual location.
There are several reasons why that is. I won’t go into them here, but you need to understand that your ex might not actually reside in the location indicated by an IP address.
The above being said, if your ex happens to live in the city and state returned by the search AND he is the only person you know who lives in that general area, you can believe with a pretty high level of certainly that he is the one sending the threatening emails.
My recommendation…
Regardless of what you find out from the IP Location search, I recommend that you report the threatening messages to law enforcement and let them investigate the matter. They generally take threats like this very seriously.
Bonus tip: There are several things you can do that will help you stay safe, one of which is to install a good security camera. (#ad)